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Interviews with real women physicians – Laura

Welcome to another installment of Interviews with Real Female Physicians. The goal of this series is to share their story so that you, the reader, may learn and be inspired from their experiences – good and bad. We all come from different backgrounds and have different situations. Some of you are married, some are not, some with kids, some with blended families. Let’s show other women that any of these can work financially!  So let's introduce our next woman physician rockstar – Laura.

Tell us about yourself:

I am a board-certified dermatologist practicing in Dallas, TX. I married my hubby (also an MD, same age) in 2008.  We have 2 kids and a dog (our best behaved child…).  I love running, reading, and travel. I live in urban Dallas, TX.  My commute is 3 miles from my office, takes about 10 min door to door (not bad). I love where I live and work and feel grateful every single day.  I have never lost sight of the fact that it is a rare privilege to become a doctor and even rarer to become a dermatologist.  I feel very blessed.  I teach medical students and residents and love sharing my knowledge with the next generation of dermatologists.  I am a volunteer faculty member since 2009 and have lectured at national meetings since I graduated residency.  I have always felt strongly about giving back to my field and advancing the specialty.

Did you graduate with student loans? 

I graduated with $110k in student debt from medical school.  I did not have any debt from college because I had a large academic scholarship to a big public university and worked part time during college. The interest rate on the $110k was 1.6%.  Yes, you are reading that number correctly.  I paid it off in 1 year by continuing to live frugally after I graduated residency. My hubby went to private college and medical school in NY.  He graduated with $280k worth of debt from undergraduate and graduate education.  His loans were recently all paid off!  His interest rate was around 2.8%.  We have been finished with residency since 2009, so it took 8 years.

Financial aspects of kids 

When did you have them?  

I had 2 kids after I finished residency. We utilize two 529 plans to fund their college education by 70%.  The remainder we have set up in a brokerage account to fully fund the rest of their education.  We had concerns about over funding if they decide on a Texas state school and didn’t want to face heavy penalties for withdrawing and not using the funds for education.

What are your child care expenses?

We have a nanny who we pay $800 per week. She has been with us for the past 5 years.  We plan to keep her until my oldest starts driving.  She arrives early every day so my husband and I can get ready for work.  She works approximately 40-45 hours per week.  My husband is a partner in his group and takes a lot of call.  I work 4 days per week.  It is priceless knowing that she is there looking after them even when we aren’t there.  We never considered day care because of our hectic and sometimes unpredictable schedules.  My nanny is quite flexible and if I have to stay late because of patient care issues, she has no problems working late.  My parents and my husband’s parents do not live close by.

Are your kids in private or public school? 

My children are both in a private pre-K and kindergarten.  Cost for my youngest is $12,000 per year.  Cost for the older is $17,000 per year.

Financial aspects of marriage

Are you married?

I am married to my husband legally, with no prenuptial agreement.  He and I were both dirt poor residents living paycheck to paycheck when we met.  It was quite an amazing experience to travel the long road that we both have been through together.  When I met him, he had a beat up Ford Taurus, with no mirrors and no air conditioning.  We rolled down the windows back then. The car would bottom out when we went over a bump in the road and we were too poor to fix it. We have a joint account and separate accounts too.  We are very open about finances and think almost exactly alike when it comes to finances.  We meet with our financial advisor once a quarter and discuss the future openly. My husband was the breadwinner for the first 7 years of our marriage.  Now –  I am the breadwinner!  Feels good. [caption id="attachment_1494" align="aligncenter" width="640"] Dallas skyline[/caption]

General Finances

My financial priorities are: children's education, charity, paying off all debts, and living below our means. We use a financial advisor through Ameriprise.  He charges 1% AUM (not including the 529s and variable universal life insurance policies x 2).  He has been great.  He has assisted with asset protection, wills, advance directives, and was very helpful in dealing with my personal accountant and practice accountants on various issues.  We meet with him quarterly in person or via webinar.

What is your net worth?  

Our net worth:  $2.6 million.  This includes the $200k we have in VUL policies and equity in our home.  We hope to keep saving and leave a legacy for our children.

How are you saving for FI/retirement?

We max out our 401k(s)/profit sharing x 2.  We are in a moderate aggressive portfolio with Ameriprise.  We also have a joint brokerage that we contribute each month to ($5k per month per person).  We have and max out a health savings account.  We do $700 per month per child to the 529 plans.  We superfund our VUL policy ($3500 per month per person).  Anything in excess goes to paying off our mortgage. Our cars are paid off.  Our home will be paid off in 2 years (by age 40), or shortly thereafter.  We live in a modest, older home.  Our mortgage is very affordable.  We do not live beyond our means.  We do not like debt or believe in having a lot of debt.  I clip coupons and use the Target app.  I shop sales.

Do you have insurance?

We have two variable universal life insurance policies at 2 million each. We have disability insurance and business overhead insurance (for my practice). We have a 4 million umbrella policy through IDS Property Casualty Company. We have car insurance, homeowner’s insurance, also through IDS.

What does FI/retirement mean to you? 

Retirement to me means cutting back to 3 days per week…but I actually love what I do and could see myself working for many, many years.  My husband and I would like to do mission work or healthcare work in underserved countries when our children are older (in college).  We figure they always need doctors in underserved, impoverished countries.  We would love to travel and help others with our skill set.  God willing, I hope I stay healthy and be able to work for a long time!

Do you give to charity? 

Every year, we give to the Catholic church ($40,000+), Crohn's and Colitis society ($2,000-5,000), and this year plan to donate to the ASDS (American Society for Dermatologic Surgery) – looking to do a large donation.

And … that's a wrap! If you're interested in doing this please send me an email – I'd love to hear from you!

Laura and her husband are on track for financial freedom. Note the common themes in this series on living below your means to achieve this.]]>

Ultimate Financial Planning Guide for the Physician Mom To Be: Part 2

In Part 1, I discussed things you should consider prior to becoming pregnant. Here is the rest.

You're Pregnant!

Congratulations! Don't panic. The good news is you have about 9 months to plan!

1. Get insurances NOW if you haven’t already for the above reasons. You may get a pregnancy exclusion but just get it and you can re-apply and get more later. Find out your OOP expenses for your health insurance if you have not already as well.

2. You'll need a basic will in place to name the guardian of your child should you pass and notify the guardians you choose. This often becomes a non-urgent to-do item after the baby is born unfortunately.

3. Retirement plans at work: If you’re taking unpaid leave or any leave, you’ll want to frontload your 403(b)/401(k)/457(b) so they are maxed out before you deliver. I recommend you frontload these accounts at least 2 months prior to your expected delivery date in case of a preterm delivery. Although this won't be a deal breaker, you'll also want to find out if and how frontloading affects employer matching if you get any.

4. If you haven't already, find out what steps need to be taken to take your maternity leave:

  • First, you'll need to decide how many weeks you want to take off. This is a highly personal decision. I've yet to meet a woman who said they took too much time off.
  • Depending on your employer, you may get completely unpaid leave or a combination of paid and unpaid leave. You may be responsible for paying your benefits during unpaid leave.
  • If you can use your vacation days towards paid leave, hoard them!
  • Finally, tell your boss or administrator so everyone at work can start planning for your leave and coverage gaps.

5. Think about childcare options. It comes down to daycare vs. nanny vs. stay at home partner.

  • Daycare and nanny costs vary significantly based on location.
  • In some cities (ahem, NYC), there can be up to a 1 year waiting list for young infants. I'm not sure how this works since no one can actually predict when they can become pregnant.
  • I recommend you pay a nanny on the books. Not only is it illegal not to, but you open yourself up to a ton of liability by not doing so.

6. Think about whose medical insurance the newborn will go under – you or your partner. It may just end being the one where the pediatrician is in-network and convenient for you.

7. Start drawing up a list of things you'll need to buy for the baby:

  • Distinguish between needs vs. wants. I recommend making 3 lists: need, really want, want. Keep in mind the need list is shorter than you think! There are fortunately or unfortunately tons of items to fit any budget. I recommend using the book Baby Bargains and the website Lucie's List to hone in on the items.
  • Whether you end up having a baby shower or not, I would still create a registry. Close friends and family will ask and they will want to buy you a gift. You might as well receive items that you want! I used Baby List for my registry.
  • Remember, you don't need a ton of stuff when the baby actually arrives. I recommend a wait and see approach to avoid a shopping craze.
  • Don't forget that you'll need some stuff too! Maternity clothing, postpartum supplies, nursing clothing and nursing equipment. At this time, breast pumps are required to be covered by your insurance.

8. Start saving for stuff (above) and for unpaid leave if applicable. This is a good time to curb your regular spending to get ready for the baby and all the expenses that come with it. Remember, you'll need to save for monthly expenses, not total income replacement. I hope you are living below if not well below your means so it should not be as much as it sounds.

9. This is not a financial tip (well sort of), but I highly recommend that you and your partner take a babymoon. A great time to do this is in the beginning of your second trimester. The nausea and unrelenting fatigue of the first trimester are over and you are not inhibited by your growing belly yet. Your lives will never be the same (for the better!). Do not forget the primary relationship (your partner). I also recommend you plan and budget for weekly date nights sans baby.

10. Outsourcing. While you're probably a type A, can do-it-all mom-to-be, the reality is it gets harder to do this as your pregnancy progresses. Don't be afraid to start outsourcing things like cleaning, laundry, and even cooking so you can get much needed rest prior to baby. You may also need to hire help with the baby if you don't have good support or family nearby. Remember, outsourcing will make you happier.

11. Find local mommy groups. Not only are they a source for used, unused and sometimes free baby items, but they are a source of support during this exciting and sometimes anxiety-provoking time. Consider joining Physician Moms Group (PMG) on Facebook. There are also local PMG groups as well. Remember, at the end of day, you will figure out how make it work!

Thousands of physician moms already have! What I have done/am doing:

  • My second life insurance policy went into effect just weeks before I became pregnant. I may have gestational diabetes (as of writing this blog post I failed the 1 hour glucose challenge). Boy am I glad I had my policies in place!
  • My insurance paid for 6 pairs of compression stockings – highly recommend you get some! 20-30 mmHG is recommended. I got Sigvaris Eversheer calf-high socks.
  • M and I took a babymoon to Paris when I was 20 weeks pregnant. We used credit card points for flights and hotel so we only had to pay for meals, local transport and shopping.
  • I am the breadwinning partner. I am taking 12 16 weeks of leave. I am fortunate that at least 8 weeks will be paid. I‘ll have up to 4 unpaid weeks of leave. We live below our means so the unpaid portion is totally manageable. I am also thinking about taking an additional 4 weeks to work part-time before going back full time. Again, living below our means gives us this option.
  • I am on a waiting list for daycare (yes they told me 1 year…). The daycare is $2600 a month. We are still considering a nanny while the baby is very young as well.
  • I have started outsourcing a few things and do not regret it!

Recommended books:

A Physician Insurance Broker

Editor's note: Stephanie has recorded a podcast over at the Hippocratic Hustle Podcast and speaks about Disability Insurance. Incredibly informative!   

For those readers not familiar with your story, tell us how you went from being a practicing OBGYN to an insurance broker:

I was a practicing OB/GYN in a community hospital, and my patient was a lovely woman. But my patient was also well into labor, in extreme pain, and not acting like her everyday self. I had to enlist a team of four nurses to help me calm her down to ensure a safe delivery. When the baby’s heart rate fell, the situation became emergent. I reached in for the infant — and the panicked mom kicked me in my shoulder, twice. For seven months, I continued to work with a torn labrum, my pain increasing as my range of motion decreased. Despite diagnostic tests, physical exams and injections, my condition developed into adhesive capsulitis, or frozen shoulder. I had always prided myself on my physical and emotional strength and dexterity. Now, surgical equipment became too difficult to maneuver. Deliveries became too painful to bear. I had to stop practicing, and undergo surgery. To put it mildly, the procedure was not as successful as I’d hoped. The limited mobility I regained wasn’t enough for me to continue my profession as I knew it, and I soon came to realize my immediate future would not include operating or delivering babies. The career I’d worked so long and so hard on was slipping through my hands. I was devastated, heartbroken. I was also unprepared for the next hurdle. Unbeknownst to me, workman’s compensation and my hospital-provided physician disability insurance, the safety nets I’d taken for granted as a resident and attending, did not automatically go into effect to give me the stability I’d assumed they would. Insult added to injury when I, a mother of two and my family’s primary breadwinner, suddenly faced a terrifying new financial reality: My newfound disability meant my family could lose my income. Eventually, I had to go to court to fight for, and eventually receive, the benefits I knew were rightly mine. As I went through this struggle, I found myself answering more and more questions from colleagues who, like me, assumed they were protected by their hospital- or practice-provided disability insurance policies. My physician friends now saw that they, too, could become injured or ill, and they wanted to make sure what happened to me wouldn’t happen to them. I was happy to help other attendings and residents go through their policies’ fine print, ask the right questions, and direct them toward the coverage they needed. After all, healthcare providers are my people. Of course I’d help them out. That’s when a friend in the insurance business stepped up and suggested I turn this newfound expertise of mine into a new career. At first, I balked. I was a physician: I didn’t want to give that up.

But then, I realized that being a physician put me in a unique position: I knew medicine. I knew hospitals and medical practices. Now I know disability insurance for physicians and nurses, and could speak as a doctor to other doctors and healthcare providers to help them secure their careers.

My experiences, knowledge and background could serve to connect my peers with solid, reliable and affordable disability coverage, so they would never have to endure what I did. That’s where I am today. I’m still an OB/GYN. But I’m also a hands-on advocate for physicians. We take care of others. We absolutely must take care of ourselves. My mission? Empower and educate my friends in healthcare about disability insurance.

Do you miss practicing clinical medicine?

Absolutely! I still get upset on Fridays, which was my OR day. I miss celebrating the best days of people’s lives. I miss the relationships that I had with my patients. Helping girls and women understand their health and make educated decisions about their healthcare meant so much. I have kept up with my licensing and MOC to stay current in my knowledge, and still feel like I am a valuable knowledge source for women’s health.

Besides disability insurance, do you sell other insurances?

I do. I currently sell disability, life, and business overhead insurance. I believe that when I am helping physicians obtain disability insurance, making sure that their life insurance needs are also met, is very important. Many private practice owners are not even aware of business overhead insurance. What happens to your practice if you can not work? How are the lease, employees salaries, etc. going to get paid? Will you close the doors, hire a locums or replacement? Business overhead protects you for these circumstances.

How do you differ from other brokers?

My intimate knowledge of what it means to be a physician makes me different. I lived it. I am now living the life of a disabled physician. I am emotionally involved in this process. I understand from a medical perspective what the insurance carriers are looking for from an underwriting point of view. I can advocate for my clients in a way that most traditional agents/brokers are unable to do. I am coming from a unique place when I explain the different policy options. I care most about education. I want people to really understand the language, the nuances, and the differences between carriers. I am not happy unless I know that people are making truly educated decisions.

Any advice on how to choose a broker? What makes someone a good broker?

I think that you have to trust your gut. You need to feel confident in your choice; feel comfortable asking questions and receiving feedback. I believe that a good broker will offer you options, and explain them in detail. He/she should compare apples to apples and apples to oranges. You should not feel like there is any bias in what you are being told.

What are 3 things you see that physicians don’t understand about disability insurance?

1. What they have and don’t have from their employers. It is important to review the master copy of the policy. Is their salary or complete income covered? How long is it own occupation? What is the definition of disability? 2. Whether or not their benefits are taxable or non-taxable. Most group benefits are paid for by employers, and are therefore taxable income. However, if the employee contributes to the plan, it is a tax free benefit. That affects how much benefit he/she can qualify for with a private DI policy. Private benefits are a tax free benefit. 3. The different definitions of total disability. There are multiple definitions:

  • The basic definition/modified own occupation – You are totally disabled if you can not perform  your job, AND you are not gainfully employed.
  • True own occupation/Regular occupation – You are totally disabled if you can not perform your job, REGARDLESS if you are gainfully employed in another occupation.
  • Transitional occupation – You are totally disabled if you can not perform your job, regardless if you are gainfully employed in another occupation, until your income is that of your pre-disability earnings.  There is a cap to how much you can earn.  In CA, there are certain occupational classes that can not get true own occ with certain carriers.  Several carriers will remove own occupation of they lower the benefit period, but will give the transitional definition.

You need to know what the definition is that you are purchasing!

What are 3 mistakes you see physicians make regarding disability insurance?

1. Waiting too long to purchase. I know how hard it is during training to conceive of paying for one more thing. However, it is the best time to purchase. You are the youngest you will ever be. You might qualify for a discounted rate that you will carry with you for the entirety of your career. You do not need to purchase the whole package- just get your foot in the door, and guarantee your future insurability. 2. Having colleagues write prescriptions. This is coming up a lot. There needs to be records; a paper trail. I understand professional courtesy, but the underwriters and companies do not see it that way. It is highly frowned upon, and is causing physicians to lose valuable insurance options. 3. Women not purchasing before they start family planning. The carriers will deny pregnancy coverage for all sorts of things. As an OBGYN, this is something I argue a lot! Miscarriages, infertility treatments, cesarean sections, etc .are all reasons for exclusion of pregnancy.

Anything else you would like to tell us?

Since entering this space, I have been able to help so many physicians (and non-physicians) obtain quality tailored policies. As trite as it may sound, I am really trying to clean up an industry that I believe has a long history of taking advantage of physicians. I hope you enjoyed learning a bit more about Stephanie!

Ultimate Financial Planning Guide for the Physician Mom To Be: Part 1